Relationships and Family
Military Romance Scam
Military Romance Scam explained in plain English: what to watch for, what to do, and how to practice safely.
Example message
I am deployed and cannot access my account. Can you send funds to my agent?
What it is
Military Romance Scam is a relationships and family scheme where an ordinary message, call, email, or chat is shaped into an urgent request. It is designed to make you act before checking the source.
How it works
The scam usually starts with a believable prompt such as: “I am deployed and cannot access my account. Can you send funds to my agent?” From there, the person is pushed toward a link, payment, code, document, or conversation before they can verify the request independently.
Red flags
- Rapid emotional trust
- Urgent money request
- Secrecy or request not to call
- Avoids normal verification
What to do
- Do not use the link, phone number, or payment instruction from the message.
- Be cautious of requests for money, shipping, or documents from someone you have not met.
- If you entered information or sent money, contact your bank or account provider immediately and save screenshots.
If it already happened
- Stop communicating with the sender.
- Do not send more money or codes.
- Contact the real company, bank, platform, or agency through an official channel.
- Save the message, number, email, and screenshots.
Prevention tips
- Save official websites and app links instead of trusting message links.
- Pause when a request adds urgency, secrecy, or an unusual payment step.
- Be cautious of requests for money, shipping, or documents from someone you have not met.
- Practice the related eSafe Academy training before a real message arrives.
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Practice safely
Try the matching training scenario
Every guide ends with practice. Use the eSafe Academy training flow to rehearse the safe response before a real message arrives.